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A Friday night and I am in the bathroom with Abigayle --curling hair, applying lip gloss, dusting glitter and helping put on a beautiful dress. I stop to think "If this were a real date I'd be crying right now. . . ." To her it is a very big night, it is the father daughter dance and she wants to be beautiful.
We finish up and she is stunning, I feel tears welling in my eyes, but I don't cry. I tell her "Abigayle you are such a beautiful girl, you are going to have so much fun tonight!"
As her dad picks her up and off they drive I wonder how I will feel when she goes with a real boy, to a real dance and I am at home to miss her.
I want to say "Don't grow up, don't leave this house, don't leave my side" but as my wonderfully insightful grandma told me when Abigayle was just a baby and I would say the same thing -- you can't deny them the glorious life God has in store for them,you just give them the love, guidance and morals to be wonderful adults.
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Thank you for that grandma, and Abigayle- I hope you made wonderful memories!